Women and the gaming indulgence

Joystick or no joystick women are amazing gamers.

According to Karl Grammer of the Ludwig Boltzmann Institute of Urban Ethology in Vienna, "Women chat happily, send sexually explicit signals and encourage the man's attention, even if they have absolutely no interest in him," said in a conclusion of a social experiment conducted at the university not too long ago.
He went on to say "You can predict male behaviour from female behaviour, but not the other way round,".

This research was conducted to study several courtship messages- for women, these included head-tossing, hair-flipping, smiling and fiddling with their clothes, eye rolling - as well as rejection signals. Im not going to paste the entire study here, but I was amazed to find out that there is actually scientifically inclined evidence (only reinforcing my practical belief) of the way women are wired, naturally, to play the game.

I mean, lets look at some practical examples in our day to day lives- a woman ( friend, colleague, aquaintance) that you kinda like bumps into you on the street after a long time. You are surprised to see her so you decide to take her for coffee. You both leave the coffee shop with your sanity intact, she says she'll call you to hook up another time. She actually does call, you hook up for dinner, and have a great time with her. She passes flirtatious signals at you, and you in all your unintelligent glory let them seep through like a thatched roof. You drop her home, wish her a pleasant week and ask to hook up on the weekend. She whole heartedly agrees. But then you never hear from her for as long as you cannot remember.

Deja Vu guys? I thought so. Im sure most of us guys have experienced a scenario of this sort in some way or the other. With some of us, the flirtatious vibes are seen as teasing come-on's that have got to mean something. With others its reason enough to say they are in love. Whatever your degree of immunity for the 'game', you'll have to admit it dudes.. these chicks know what they are doing. Or do they?

I believe much of the play rules for the games women play are borne out of insecurties. Many are in search of recognition and attention, their birth right gifts for being women. Hence they try and extract it as much as possible(flirtatious signals automatically induce compliments and attention from us imbicil males), play the waiting game and then see what happens. In the process, the wrong signals are sent out and their actual intentions are never really revealed. Of course, I will not say that this is true with every woman, as I have seen and known some genuinely true female characters that have inspired me. The problem is they are either married, or dead.


Yo ladies- wassup with that? I think men are very simple beings. Dont burn yourselves trying to play the game, cos sooner or later you'll realize youre running out of players.