They Said

ya'll dont know jack... Ya'll dont know me. iss just a piece a ma cree ae tivitee.

Sunday, October 22, 2006

What we really mean...


sorry to burst ya bubbles ladies, but us guys got too many things goin on to explain it like it is. Check it out:

1) I'm a Romantic = I'm poor

2) I've been thinking a lot = You're not as attractive as when I was drunk

3) I am different from all the other guys = I am not circumcised

4) How much do you love me? = I've done something really stupid and someone's on his/her way to tell you about it now

5) I'll give you a call = I'd rather have my nipples torn off by wild dogs than see you again

Alcohol, Cannabis, Tobacco and Self Righteousness- Hypocrisy in the church


Have you ever been to a church service and heard a preacher go " If your heart is not in the right place with God, you should come up and take communion or confess, because its his blood that renews you"... and then they have an itenerary for taking communion every month.

Just as expected, the rest of the christian congregation walk up the podium, accept their "deliverances", approaching the grand stand like an arpegio chord, and then walk back to their seats. Sweet Heavens, they have been renewed. Now they will go unto the world and try and be better people.

At least this is what Christians do and I have seen it with my very eyes. The flip side of all of this is the fact that the exit gate of the church truly is a portal to "un-renew" the christians. As soon as they step foot on this "man made" world, the bickering, the gossip, the back stabbing, the abuse, the lies and the vices bear evidence in their daily walk. Of course, this is in kind, the ideal definition of hypocrisy, but when confronted about it, the piss poor defense line comes up : "God did not look for perfect people and We are not perfect and are just trying to do the right thing". Somebody please give me a barf bag .


On the other side of the coin, there are those that feel the extra evangelism that should reach the ends of the earth, will benefit those of us who do not have the privilege of knowing their savior. How about just being worthy examples? If people like me, secular sinners with impure thoughts of booze, sex and music just carry on our peaceful lives, but do exactly what we say and believe in- why is it so hard for the Jesus followers to do so? If you cant live the life your faith teaches you to live, you sure as hell cant be one to tell a secular person how to do it (even if its a testimony ;) )

Peeece out

Saturday, October 07, 2006

kuwaiti women?

as a young, single Indian male born and raised in kuwait, educated in the US and now working again in kuwait; I find it very hard to comprehend the Kuwaiti woman mindset..
No disrespect or offense intended here, but why is it such a crime to be interested in or committed to non-kuwaiti guys? I know tradition, religious , and cultural stigmas lay stringent boundaries on young kuwaiti women, but what ever happened to "pushing the envelope", and believing in something for your life- like love, peace, confidence and adventure? ... I mean, the kuwaiti guys dont seem to have a problem marrying british, russian, chinese or even philipino women, do they?
I understand that kuwaiti women have to respect and abide by their religious laws, but I also think they have gotten too comfortable in thinking that they cannot do any better than kuwaiti men. Maybe Im just blabbering horseshit, or maybe Im spot on- but the fact is that(and I know this frrom having many kuwaiti women friends and colleagues), many of them are not happy in their marriages. Sad but true.